Did Kylie Minogue have an Affair?

An Open letter to Kylie Minogue

Dear Kylie,

Here we go again ….. the Locomotion of endless gossip stories about your personal life. Word is out you’ve broken up with Pepe Lu Pew, gave him the ol’ “Je Ne Sais Pas Pourquoi”. I know, I know You Wouldn’t change a thing but don’t you get tired of all the attention, media Fever and invasion of privacy, do you invite any of those paparazzi to “Come into my World”? Perhaps not, after all, from scattered media information gathered while channel surfing over the years I see your entire life’s experiences as having been associated within the unrealistic world of the Entertainment Industry, not a cause for Celebration. As a matter of fact when it comes to the media, I Can’t get you out of my head. I recall watching part of a television interview, could have been “60 minutes” back in the late 80’s there was an answer to a question about your future. In your eyes you saw that retiring somewhere in a rural community along the New South Wales Coast and raising a family might be a possibility. Just this morning I Did it again, turned on the TV and It’s no secret, here you are, 38!! Jeeez …. it’s gettin’ a bit late Kylie! Where in the world does the time go?

Problem is; you are seen as public property and from what I can visualize, If you were with me now, I’d say you are living your life within that sphere of influence. Even though you always seem to Enjoy yourself, Burning up your own inner happiness and future contentment is not the best prospect. I suggest you break free from those close to you who feed from your trough. More often than not these people are shallow, insincere and ultimately self serving. I wager you would Confide in me that your Sister Danni is your only true and genuine friend, It’s clear to me you don’t have to put your Hand on your heart and tell us she is there Especially for you.

Because you have gained fame and material wealth finding genuine friends now is almost an impossibility. Sure Kylie, you can say it’s Better the devil you know 97 times but Let’s get to it, are they really present because you are Kylie from Melbourne or Kylie the Dancing Queen? How do you really know? If you could only Step back in time. You may be Shocked to know that the complexity increases exponentially when searching for a man. But, it’s Never too late to find a man who understands who you really are, one who comprehends the Finer feelings of where you came from and where you wish to go. It could be Love at first sight with a man who cares deeply about the girl who had dreams and aspirations all those years ago, and the mature woman today who requires strength, support and inner security from the partner she gives her emotional-self to. The fantasy of discovering happiness based on an unconditional love is within all of us who exhibit a normal and well balanced outlook on life. The most difficult part is actually finding it, even more so, on the Dancefloor.

Right now you are probably asking yourself the question “What do I have to do?” Well Kylie, the reason for these words is to offer some advice in your search for personal fulfillment as well as finding the right guy without interference from “the girls”, us guys know they can’t keep their opinions to themselves when it comes to the “new boyfriend”. All I ask in helping you find Your love is that you Give me just a little more time and look over the following 10 points.

1: Reduce your circle of acquaintances to those who would be a confidant even if you were simply employed as a check out chick someplace, like err …Walmart. Women have an acute ability to discern personality differences but too often make “allowances” for What kind of fool they encounter.

2: Only surround yourself with “friends” who take a genuine and caring interest in your well being, friends who do not gossip and people who refuse material gain. Whenever you feel like it just tell those who prove to be unwelcome that “Your Disco needs you” and “the drink specials start at 9″!.

3: Don’t be Slow to dismiss any association with individuals who exhibit all forms of negative reaction, pessimistic behavior, self promotion or severe mood swings, you will be pleased when that little voice inside you says “there’ll be no more Tears on my pillow tonight”.

4: Be cautious on how far you “open up” to others, no matter how great the urge, more often than not you are treading a Tightrope as their attention is not based on intimacy, chances are they will have little regard to your concerns or feelings anyway. Remember, the most important person to most people ….. is themselves !! So when you are out one evening with a group of friends repeat to yourself, “On a night like this I must be careful.

5: As difficult as it may be, endeavor to socialize away from public areas and prying eyes. After all, I gather you have enough put away to retire. Do you really need another “Hit” fix and more publicity? You’ve Got to be certain that life has more meaning and purpose than this! Remember the clock ticks for all of us, we never know the day we’ll catch the next Stage to Boot Hill. (That’s the one with Rory Calhoun ridin’ shotgun). A prime concern at your time in life is to be content with the place you are at now and confident of your direction forward so as each day dawns you Turn it into Love.

6: Modify your search criteria Closer to men outside of the Entertainment Industry, A match Made in Heaven will not happen with a high public profile or those who are career obsessed. There cannot be a Queen and a King with equal power, it will simply not work! The higher your profile the greater the shadow over his self esteem. It is a very rare male who respects a woman enough to allow her to soar to the heights of success and then watch from afar shouting “Keep on pumping it up baby!” I can think of other scenarios but they are out of the scope of this letter

7: In a deep and meaningful partnership the woman must assist her man within his world to a similar extent, it is not simply good enough for the man to endorse the ambitions of his “other half” alone, any imbalance will ultimately corrode the relationship. You’ll end up asking youself “Where is the feeling?” The old saying of “Put yourself in my place” holds true. Ideally the partnership should be as one, but this is as rare as Kryptonite. Lois? … Lois!! …you paying attention ??

8: Who best to Say the word on men, but a male. The man best suited to a high profile woman is a confident man without an overblown ego, one who exhibits healthy levels of self confidence, creativity and intellect, has little interest in substantial materialism or fame in his own right and supports, respects and understands his lady in all that she desires while remaining equal in an emotional partnership. Furthermore, a light hearted and humorous outlook on life should ensure a harmonious relationship. It’ll be a Love affair in which you’ll be asking for More more more. (Life is far too short to be surrounded by seriousness, conflict jealousy, envy and anger).

9: Personally, I see your Rhythm of love best suited to an Australian man, one who exhibits a fun sense of humour, has similar lifestyle values and would appreciate who you really are as a person. This individual must be life experienced, mature, masculine, non aggressive, well balanced, well bred, philosophic, empathetic, generous, genuine, honest, strong, relatively successful, caring and above all respectful of your inner being. Now a cynical woman may say there is no such animal, but Do you dare explore the possibility? Start with Lismore ……….. Good Luck!!

10: Finally, figure out what you really want in life. Study your list in order of importance then remain on track ignoring or down playing diversions keeping clear focus on your ultimate objective. A lonely, Fragile grey haired old woman in a dimly lit room with drawn dark brown pinch pleat curtains, hunched over and sunken into her dusty old recliner surrounded by memorabilia with a huge stock portfolio in the bank doesn’t sound like a fitting end to me! But then some may say “I should be so lucky … Lucky …Lucky … L…”

Kind regards,
Brian Towers
Adelaide Australia.